I won't pretend to be flawless in my disagreements. Not remotely. I'm learning every day and perpetually seeking to do better. When you learn better, you do better. Any hobby is full of landmines, but the purebred dog fancy seems particularly fraught (to be frank, the rescue world isn't better). In general, I try hard to follow some guiding principles, even in the depths of frustration or despair. These are my guiding principles. Absolutely no one is entitled to adopt t